Mark Affleck

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Would I Change Anything if I had it to DO OVER Again?

Regrets are part of life on planet earth. And that begs a piercing question that came to me this past weekend: “If I had it to do over again, what would I change? Would I ‘undo’ the worst mistake I ever made or erase my life’s darkest hour?” Every believer has actions in their past they would change. Things like: • Our role in a failed relationship. • Something we did to alter our mind. • A misguided...
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Nobody Wants to Talk About SELFISHNESS

My blog last week on UNMET EXPECTATIONS hit a nerve inside the Love God Fear Nothing tribe around the world. I received numerous comments from people who had someone in their life act in a way that fell short of the expectations they had for that person. Those comments got me thinking about WHY we are let down by others who fail to meet our expectations. It didn’t take long before a common thread...
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Get Over It, Mark--People Will Let Us Down!

We all have a keen sense of our EXPECTATIONS for the people we encounter on life’s road: Those close to us like family and friends; others we work or worship with on a regular basis; employers; and strangers who come into our lives on the freeway or in a restaurant. I was recently stunned and crushed by someone’s careless behavior that missed my expectations BY A MILE. My immediate, internal reaction...
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How I Keep Easter from “Getting Old”

I gave myself a huge CHALLENGE this past Easter weekend. Here’s the lens I looked through to fully appreciate the most significant day on any calendar on planet earth… Holy Week has historical and life-changing significance because it is the story of Jesus beginning—and completing–his journey to the Cross on our behalf. That’s why my goal every Easter is to shift my focus away from the “holiday”...
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When was the Last Time You Asked God: “WHAT’S NEXT”?

The question “WHAT’S NEXT, GOD” has been dominating my thoughts for most of our short run into 2024. My starting point on this subject is considering whether asking God “What’s Next” is appropriate versus one of the most common aphorisms in Christianity: “Let Go, Let God.” Of course, there is nothing wrong with Let Go, Let God. It is a powerful reminder that GOD IS IN CONTROL, NOT US. But it needs...
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My Weekend’s Painful Memory And 5-Step Recovery

An excruciatingly painful memory invaded my mind this past weekend and sent deeply emotional jabs ricocheting through my consciousness. It felt like my life’s plane had been hijacked to a deserted and dark location. It was a triggering experience that dropped me to my knees in prayer. AND GOD ANSWERED. After my prayers produced some calming relief, I began to think what a Christian—me, you, all believers—should...
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I Spent the Weekend Fixated on FIGHTING

I spent this past weekend thinking about FIGHTING, a lot. No, not the kind of fighting that probably jumped into your mind. I’m referring to fighting the GOOD FIGHT OF FAITH. The back story here starts with how some verses in the Bible have special meaning in the life of a believer and how some have EXTRA SIGNIFICANCE. One such verse for me is Paul’s piercingly powerful statement in 2 Timothy: “I...
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The Canary Died and I Did NOT See It Coming

This yawning morning in late February has me palpably aware that two months of this ‘new’ year will soon be scooting off the stage. That reality creates a confrontation for me with TIME that produces these two thoughts: 1) I NEVER want to obsess over the inexorable passage of time in this life; but 2) I DO want to continually reflect on my life’s purpose and maximize the time I devote to doing the...
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Has it Ever Felt Like God Was a Million Miles Away?

All Christians–at one time or another, to one degree or another—are pecked by a pain I call FAITH FATIGUE. That’s been the case for me over the past few weeks. It has not stilled my faith, but it has prompted me to ask God for delivery from the funk. THE ANTIDOTE? Spiritual Discipline. I know…that sounds like bondage, not freedom. But the way out of faith fatigue is sticking to our...
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Are You a 9-Tool Christian?

I’ve always been fascinated by “5-Tool Players” in major league baseball. These are the superstars who exhibit the sport’s most important tools–Speed, Throwing, Fielding, Hit for Average, and Hit for Power. Think Willie Mays and Shohei Ohtani. In professional hockey the five tools are Skating, Shooting, Playmaking, Scoring and Defense. Think Wayne Gretzky. Basketball uses Scoring, Rebounding,...
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