Mark Affleck

WILL THE EARTHQUAKE GET YOU?

It all depends on the foundation it strikes. That’s what will determine our response to the earthquakes of life.    In a large earthquake, some buildings are unfazed and suffer no damage, while others are completely destroyed and left in rubble by the same temblor. The degree of damage and destruction is determined not only by the earthquake’s strength and ferocity, but the depth, strength,...

“Even God can’t fix this!”

What a disaster! How can I ever be happy again?    That’s the headline and lead paragraph to a story earlier in my life when as a CEO I was the subject of intense criticism.    What did I learn? What did God teach me? How did the experience change and shape my life? Let me tell you that story.    I learned that it is because of tribulation–not its absence–that...

You’re not the boss of me!

You have played this game before, right?    Of course you have and I have and if they gave medals for playing the “I’m Boss” game, mine would be solid gold.    We actually start playing boss as children, always wanting something and eventually wanting everything. We have all seen and heard kids walk around the house saying, “Mine, mine, mine” and “I want it now!” This me-centered...

YOU’RE FIRED!

Hold on…this is not about Donald Trump’s signature line from Celebrity Apprentice. Nope, it’s the line God prompted me to use on myself when I had the misguided inclination to be the boss of my life and not fully trust him.    On that day, God made it crystal clear that he wanted my heart—all of it—so he could take control of my today…my tomorrow…my eternal destiny.    I was flooded...

ARE YOU LOOKING BACK OR AHEAD?

Whew! It’s over. Thank God that storm has passed.    Have you ever felt like that after going through one of life’s trials? I have. More times than I’d like to admit. The good news for me is that God has revealed his perspective and the truth that spiritual growth after a test of faith is not automatic. In fact, God doesn’t want us to treat our trials in life like getting past an accident...

THE CONTENTMENT CURE

Being content in this materialistic, got-to-have-it-now world is easier said than done, right?    I used to think about contentment in terms of “giving thing up.” But God has shown me that contentment is much more than giving up the drive for material and financial success.    Contentment is really a character issue.    God asks us if we can resist the temptation for...

THE DAY I FINALLY STOPPED “TRYING HARD”

I wanted the perfect career, perfect marriage, perfect family, perfect house, perfect car, perfect church, perfect hobbies, perfect attitude…the perfect life. And I was willing to do whatever it took to make all of that happen. You know, “try hard…you can do it, Mark.”    So much for MY plan.    Of course perfection is elusive because it doesn’t exist—no matter how hard...

I WAS WRACKED WITH GUILT

Worshiping the Activity Management Game    Living an “Activity Management” lifestyle is dangerous.  Even with the best calibration, a wheel spinning too fast will eventually blow out. I know this to be true because it is an important part of my life story and the way God taught me a very important lesson. That’s what I want to share with you here.    As a corporate CEO in...

Can You Play Second Fiddle?

It wasn’t until my knees buckled under my own power that I was ready to receive God as the true and one Lord of my life. On that day my natural self was vanquished with its last breath and I was ready to “play second fiddle.”    When bad things happen in life, we need to see them as necessary trials that God uses to glorify himself and bring us closer to him. Through spiritual discipline...

Where is your Refuge?

Where do you go when the storms of life hit?    Do you escape to a “warm and safe” bunker?    Do you deny reality and hope the storm passes?    Or do you go on a hunt for any diversion you can find—even if it’s unhealthy?    If you answered yes to any of those questions, welcome to my club because I’ve tried them all!    Thankfully I’ve learned to...