Why are So Many Christians Raging?

There are millions of Christians everywhere on this planet wondering why they get ANGRY when they know it’s wrong. Know that it damages their faith walk. Know that it paints the wrong picture for those people who see it come out. Sadly, only a small portion of believers who are carrying DEEP-SEATED ANGER inside them are willing to acknowledge it, let alone expose it to God. That was ME early in my faith walk.

This anger coin has two sides: 1) The overt, exploding anger made manifest in the expression of thoughts antithetical to living a Christ-like life; and 2) The simmering silence of pain that comes from trying to hold anger inside and prevent it from escaping into the world.

Both forms are destructive. Both forms produce a wave of guilt that rolls us to kiss our life’s shore. Both forms cry out for the same treatment—asking God to transform our heart…not chain it down.

God has taught me that our ANGER REACTION to a challenge or threat or circumstance is mostly determined by how much of God’s Word we have pre-loaded into our mind and heart.

Failing to fully release control of our life to God forces us to “manage our anger.” You know…make the “right decisions” in those tense moments of life that we mess up and then remorsefully long for another kick at the can.

We cannot manage anger in our heart by trying to chain it down. We need to transform our heart to deal with the anger that visits it through our life. I do that in three phases:

PRE-EVENT
Load in God’s Word discernment, wisdom, and direction before the ANGER event.

“Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret—it leads only to evil.” Psalm 37:8

EVENT
Go to God with new developments for additional discernment, wisdom, and direction during the ANGER event.

“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Isaiah 41:10

POST-EVENT
Go back to God to learn and create a new PRE-EVENT capability for the next ANGER event.

“In your anger do not sin. Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.” Ephesians 4:26

I have learned to take my anger to God, release control, and trust His wisdom over my own understanding. That’s why I ask Him to help me resist the urge to lash out at others by embedding his Word and wisdom in my heart. To strengthen me to be patient with others just as he is patient with me.

WHAT ABOUT YOU?
Have you pre-loaded God’s Word into your heart and mind to beat back the anger urge? What one step could you take today toward that end?

“Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.” James 1:19-20