leadership

My “God Connection” was severed as a young Christian when I learned that our “success dreams and destinations” may not be part of God’s purpose for us. In fact, they may be the polar opposite.   What!? I thought being a Christian meant we can have anything we ask for in Jesus’ name.    You may […]

Yep. It’s true. Last night I went to the county fair with my family and saw thousands of smiles (one of them you can see above on my grandson’s face). I saw thousands of people in relational bliss. And I saw thousands of people happy in that moment, their NOW.    My drive home in

The day my natural self was vanquished is a vivid memory seared into the cinema of my mind and firmly attached to the walls of my now-free heart. Instead of trying to manage and control the “bad things in life” that produce pain and angst, God helped me see those events as the gateway to

It took some time to build up enough energy to explode, but that ending was inevitable now that I look back on those days earlier in my faith walk when I was living a stress-filled existence in the PRESSURE COOKER as a CEO in the marketplace.    I was constantly battling anxiety, emotional confusion, temptations,

Early in my faith walk I was incapable of waiting for anything. So if I wanted it…I did whatever it took to get it. What I sought did not matter–money or mansions or sports cars or something on my unending list of “things” I “had to have.”    Applying the notion of waiting to the

Trolls are on the prowl. Anarchists are scheming. And meanness has taken over.    We are living existential lives without ballast and without anchors. It is a liquid and languid life. Our world is dripping in mean-spirited and destructive venom. It’s sad. It’s scary. And it’s serious.    Of course hate has been with us

Money!   Success!   Power! Those threads were the pervasive focus of my early days as a Christian as I mounted a relentless chase of prosperity at the exclusion of almost everything else. I was the boss of my life and had not fully surrendered it to Christ. I was living in a mansion with an ASTERISK,

Have you ever given yourself this pep talk: Control yourself! C’mon, get it together NOW! You can do it. C’mon, man.    Most of us face this SELF-CONTROL CHALLENGE every day as our earthly desires collide with the Holy Spirit and toss us into perpetual confusion.    No wonder God’s fruit of self-control is so

It’s true. The word consider was just that early in my faith walk—a word. Fast-forwarding my life story ends up with a much different result. I’ll unpack that now, starting with Webster’s definition:    “Think carefully about something, typically before making a decision.”    OK, fair enough. We all do that countless times every day.